UNICORN PRIDE!

This is a blog written by and for men with small dicks.  Actually it is for all men with penises around the world. We have seen a lot posted lately about accepting women’s bodies, curves, breasts, and vaginas. Which is great!  But easy to forget is that men also have a hard time with body image.  And the number one thing men are most self-conscious about is penis size? Of being too small. 

Our popular culture today is obsessed with the notion that “Bigger is Better” or “Size Matters!” That has resulted in lifelong masculine disempowerment. Since these thoughts translate to not being good enough and give low sexual confidence resulting in lesser confidence in general. Not to mention being self-conscious about nakedness around women and comparison with other naked men.  The popular concept is the “average” penis is 6.5 inches, when in fact “average is closer to 5.25 inches.   Look how many “average” men now believe they are falling short of average!

This website is dedicated to men who fear they are small, and men who are, in fact small.  I will be posting pictures of smaller hung men, and articles, with the hope of showing you that small can still be sexy.

Our naked bodies are the most natural thing there is. Humans have to be pretty screwed up when we are not being able to be happy and comfortable with our own naked selves. Can you stand in the mirror and say “I love my body just as it is” or “I’m Enough”, without feeling somewhere deep down that you are faking the words?

Here is the thing.   The pictures of men that get posted on line are not representative of “the average man” and certainly very few “small hung men” post photos of themselves.  So men with small dicks will find very few role models on line to look up to.   I will be working to correct that and post photos of average to smaller men who will prove how sexy even smaller men can be.  It’s time we smaller men have our role models too!

I have long been plagues by self-doubt.  I actually do have a small penis (just 3.3 inches).  I was especially haunted by the idea that boys in junior high were hung bigger than I am.  Maybe it is because it was boys that age who teased me relentlessly back in school.  It left me with the terrible deflating idea that I less than a man, or even worse, would never actually become a man.  Bullying, and all those small penis jokes really do cause us injury.  Some injuries it might take years to recover from, if ever.
What transformed the way I see myself?  A lover said something to me once. It changed everything.  I had told him I felt like a freak of nature.   He said, “No man, you are a fucking unicorn!  Unicorns are so rare, so valuable, so extra-ordinary!  Some people searched the lands their whole lives and never found one.  I’m lucky, I found you!”

Luckily, there are many ways to go about and reclaim our lost and latent sexual power. It’s better to do it sooner than later. The longer men wait to deal with sexual issues the longer men live life half-baked. The tremendous power sexual freedom store is repressed until then. And when it’s set free it can be utilized in all areas of life:

·       Business,
·       Work,
·       Energy,
·       Relationship,
·       Personal traits and
·       Fuel for goals and purpose as a man.

We can work on a mental level with accepting ourselves as we are; but somehow we have to make ourselves believe we are enough.  My penis size is enough on a physical level and I can also acquire sexual skill-sets to add to my arsenal.  When I am focusing on my partner I am too busy to be self-conscious!  Most gay men and straight women would agree that it’s not about the size, but about the technique, body awareness, confidence, and energy control.  Something that anybody can learn if you have the right tools and knowledge.  I am not doing this to make a buck, just to pay it forward!

You are enough and you are not alone

So if you are reading and resonating with this, know that you are not alone.

I will be posting photos and videos all supporting this common theme, and all focused on addressing these areas:
·       Self esteem
·       Separating truth from myths
·       Learning self-acceptance: wishing things were different does not lead to happiness.
·       Realizing how desirable  men with small penises can be.
·       Skill sets to set you apart.

Please do be in touch of any of my posts make a difference in your life.  Leave comments or email me with suggestions!  Thanks!  Time to come out of the small dick closet!  Time to become a role model! 

It's time to embrace your inner Unicorn!




 

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